Con: Lack of Socialization
Kids with ADHD tend to struggle socially since they do not have the attention to maintain conversations and struggle to stay with one game for any length of time. By homeschooling, you risk cutting off their appropriate socialization as well as their ability to practice their social skills in real life settings. Without appropriate practice, their skills may fall farther behind without a chance to develop.
Socialization helps show children with ADHD socially appropriate behaviors that they can mirror back later. It also helps by fostering new ideas and changed ways of thinking. Surely, you can supplement other types of socialization through other activities, but it will be difficult to obtain the full quantity available at school.
Pro: Potential for Improved Relationship
When you spend more time with your child, unexpected, positive things can happen. No longer are you forcing your child up in the morning and out the door. Now, you are afforded the opportunity to connect and interact in ways that parents do not get to do typically.
Amazing things can develop with this increased time as new commonalities and shared interests grow. The bond between you may become stronger due to the increased occasion to relate on new levels. This could lay the foundation for a life-long, quality relationship that benefits each of you greatly.
Con: Diminished Resources
Homeschooling a child demands a lot of time, effort, and energy. You’re human, after all, which means that you only have so much of yourself to give. Imagine continuing all of your current responsibilities at home including cooking, cleaning, mowing the grass, chauffeuring to activities, and completing needed projects. Now, imagine doing all these while homeschooling. Additionally, homeschooling can limit or eliminate your ability to work and provide another income for you family. This can turn into a larger stressor with time.
Pro: Get out of Your Comfort Zone
Life may be a daily routine that you are not satisfied with any longer. The routines become ruts and monotony takes over. With homeschooling, you have the chance to make each day new and different for you and your child. For your child with ADHD, the end of boring routines will be met with excitement and anticipation since a lack of success at school has likely added to frustrations.
For you, it might help you find more enthusiasm for life as every day will be a new venture with you in control. Homeschooling may also show off your creativity by developing new styles and tools to aid in the education of your child.
Conclusion
No matter what side of the fence you land on, remember that homeschooling your child is a situation to be considered over an extended period of time. This is not a choice to be made impulsively or emotionally. Because of this, consulting with a number of people can make the process clearer.
When considering the pros and cons, accept the notion that not all homeschooling is equal. Many of the cons become erased if you are connected to a strong community network of homeschoolers that can assist with socialization and useful strategies for managing ADHD symptoms. On the other hand, the pros of homeschooling can become negative if you are unprepared or unable to handle the responsibility of educating your child and do not have access to the needed level of support.
Ultimately, as a concerned parent, you must make a choice that you believe to be best for your child and family unit. After the decision is made, do everything in your power to emphasize the pros and shrink the cons.
