Emotional Sensitivity and Hypersensitivity
Attention deficit disorders and volatile emotions go hand in hand. Just like hyperactivity, people with ADHD find that they lose emotional control suddenly and often, which can make daily life even more challenging.
In fact, emotional disruptions are the most significant impairments of ADHD, and can lead to deep problems with self-image and social interaction.
Hypersensitivity is a separate condition (believed to be genetic and present since birth), though it often occurs with ADHD. It is estimated that up to 20% of the general population is hypersensitive to physical and emotional stimuli, but that number is much higher among ADHD patients.
Understanding how your emotional volatility and hypersensitivity interacts with your ADHD, and how to make use of it, is an important first step toward a more comfortable daily life.
How Hypersensitivity Manifests in ADHD
In some ways, emotional sensitivity and ADHD mood swings are similar to bipolar disorder because they are fast and severe, and even relatively benign situations can bring about a reaction. You may find that a sad commercial causes a crying fit and feeling of deep sadness, or an unexpected piece of good news can send you into hysterics. It may not happen all the time, but when your emotions get the better of you, you can feel helpless, frantic, and alienated from the people around you.
Your particular reactions will surely depend on your own unique personality, but sensitive emotional patterns could also be tied to certain aspects of your ADHD:
- Impulsiveness. ADHD people tend to be very impulsive, and that may contribute to their emotional hypersensitivity. Impulsive behavior comes in the form of snap decisions, which can interfere with your daily obligations; impulsive emotional reactions come from an inability to inhibit and process your strong feelings, and can wreak havoc on your social interactions. It follows that if you can reign in your impulses, you can reduce a good deal of your daily stress.
- Difficulty focusing. Problems with focus may be interfering with your emotional restraint – and how deeply you experience your emotions. Experts suggest that it often takes much longer for a person with ADHD to calm down than it would for someone without an attention deficit disorder, since they cannot easily divert their attention to other things, and instead get trapped in the emotional reaction. That means your moods are more intense, and they can last all day.
- High expectations. Many people living with ADHD have unrealistically high expectations of themselves, which can lead to a cycle of stress, and eventually, an emotional outburst. It’s natural to compare yourself to other people in your life, but since your brain operates differently in certain ways, it’s unfair to expect your goals and responsibilities to match.
- Hormonal shifts. Hormones can cause drastic changes in mood and perception, and when they combine with the hypersensitivity of ADHD, it can be especially difficult to control your reactions. Times of hormonal change (like puberty or menstruation) can be particularly challenging.
Next Page: steps to better emotional control and using sensitivity in positive ways.